This last one could use some explaining:
Spray stain with Resolve (or whatever is handy),
put it in a bucket in my sink filled with enough cool water to cover it, along with some Borax.
Hours or days
If the stain is still there,
1. brush or by rubbing it together with hands (you can wear gloves if you'd like)
2. but oftentimes I just add some more Borax, maybe some laundry detergent, and then return it to the bucket.
After more time, the stain might work its way out on its own.
Of course, nothing is fool-proof, but in my experience, this has worked with little (if any) scrubbing on the majority of stains.